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Bereaved Fathers Day is the last Sunday in August, for every Dad whose child has died. Here’s the release, the facts and the images, and the help numbers to print alongside your story.

The release

For release: Thursday 19 November 2026, International Men’s Day

A Melbourne Dad launches a home for Bereaved Fathers Day on International Men’s Day

bereavedfathersday.com is for every Dad whose child has died, and for the family, friends and workplaces around them.

Melbourne, Thursday 19 November 2026. On International Men’s Day, Melbourne Dad Matt is launching bereavedfathersday.com, a home for Bereaved Fathers Day: the last Sunday in August, for every Dad whose child has died, and for the people around them.

Matt’s first son, Parker James, was born on Friday 14 August 2026 and died on 15 August. “I know I’m Parker’s Dad. I always will be,” Matt says.

The site gathers what a Dad, and the people who love them, might need in the weeks and months after: support written just for Dads; words for family and friends, with messages they can copy and send; a short guide for workplaces; Letters to our children, where Dads, family and friends can write to a child who has died, with no names; and the numbers to call, any hour.

International Bereaved Father’s Day is widely reported to have been created in 2010 by Carly Marie Dudley, alongside International Bereaved Mother’s Day. In Australia it falls on the Sunday before Father’s Day, a week out from one of the hardest days of the year. The next is Sunday 29 August 2027.

On an average day in Australia, six babies are stillborn and two die within 28 days of birth, according to the Australian Institute of Health and Welfare. Many more families go through a miscarriage, or the death of a child later in infancy.

“I’ve got a lifetime’s worth of love for him,” Matt says. “This is one of the places it goes.”

This International Men’s Day, Matt is asking people to check in on a Dad whose child has died, and to say their name. Workplaces can find a five-minute guide at bereavedfathersday.com/workplaces.

The site doesn’t fundraise. It points Dads to the organisations that helped Matt’s family, including Red Nose, Bears of Hope, Heartfelt and Love From Dad.

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The facts

What it is
A day for every Dad whose child has died, and for the people who love them.
When
The last Sunday in August: in Australia, the Sunday before Father’s Day. The next is Sunday 29 August 2027.
Where it came from
International Bereaved Father’s Day is widely reported to have been created in 2010 by Carly Marie Dudley, alongside International Bereaved Mother’s Day.
Who it’s for
Dads first, whatever the loss: a lifetime, a few years, a few months, a few hours, or never getting to hold them. And the family, friends and workplaces around them.
The website
bereavedfathersday.com: support for Dads, words for family and friends, a guide for workplaces, Letters to our children, and the numbers to call. Live since 3 October 2026; announced on International Men’s Day, 19 November 2026.
Who made it
Matt, in Melbourne, after his son Parker James was born on 14 August 2026 and died on 15 August. A personal project, made by hand.
What it isn’t
It doesn’t fundraise, and it isn’t a crisis or counselling service. It points Dads to Red Nose, Bears of Hope, Heartfelt, Love From Dad, SMS4dads and the helplines.
Letters to our children
Two boards on the site where Dads, and family and friends, write to a child who has died. No names, every letter is read before it goes up, and any letter can be shared as an image.
What anyone can do
Check in on a Dad whose child has died, and say their name. Mark the day at home, with mates, or at work.
The numbers
On an average day in Australia, 6 babies are stillborn and 2 die within 28 days of birth. Source: Australian Institute of Health and Welfare, Australia’s mothers and babies: Stillbirths and neonatal deaths in Australia, 2021 (updated 30 June 2026).

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Letters to our children

A place on the site to write to a child who has died. Dads write on one board, family and friends on the other, and every letter is read before it goes up.

  • Two boards: Write to your child, for Dads, and Share your love, for family and friends.
  • No names. A letter says who it’s to, if the writer wants, and who it’s from, like “Dad” or “Grandma”.
  • Every letter is read before it goes up. If a letter suggests the writer may be in danger, it’s held, and the help numbers show straight away.
  • Writers get a private link to take their letter down at any time.
  • Any letter can be shared as an image for Instagram, Facebook or WhatsApp, made on the reader’s own phone or computer.
  • No likes, counts or comments. Just letters.

The letters are public and written without names. If you quote one, please quote it as it’s written, and don’t try to find out who wrote it.

Read the letters

An example letter made into an image to share: To [name]. Hey bud, it’s Dad. This year I painted the fence, cried about 803 times and finally started the business. You’d have been out in the shed with me, handing me all the wrong tools. I miss you every single day. From Dad. bereavedfathersday.com/letters
An example letter, made into an image to share. The story and post versions are in the media kit.

Images and logos

The badge: a newborn’s hand gripping his Dad’s thumb
First grip: a newborn’s hand gripping his Dad’s thumb
Walking together: a Dad and his little boy, from behind
The hold: a Dad’s hand holding his child’s hand
Parker: a line drawing of Matt’s son

The media kit has the release and fact sheet as PDFs; every version of the badge and the name, in high resolution and as SVG for print; the four line drawings at 3000 pixels on a transparent ground; profile pictures and covers; example letters made into images; and the posts and stories we’ve shared. They’re free to use with a story about the day.

Please don’t reproduce the photographs of Parker from Our Story. A photograph of Matt is available on request.

Download the media kit

Reporting with care

  • Please print the help numbers alongside any story: Red Nose 1300 308 307, Lifeline 13 11 14, MensLine Australia 1300 78 99 78, and in danger, 000.
  • Please follow Mindframe’s guidance for reporting on mental health and suicide (mindframe.org.au).
  • Please don’t reproduce the photographs of Parker from Our Story. The logos and line drawings in the media kit are free to use with a story about the day; a photograph of Matt is available on request.

Talk to Matt

Matt is happy to talk about Parker, the day, and what helps a Dad whose child has died. Interviews can be paused or ended at any time.

Message us on Instagram: @bereavedfathersday. Messages are read by Matt, usually within a day or two.

Need to talk now?

In danger, call 000.

Rather text than talk: SMS4dads grief messages, for 15 weeks.

All the ways to get help

  • Red NoseSupport when a baby or child has died, at any age. Open 24/7.1300 308 307
  • LifelineCrisis support by phone, text or chat. Open 24/7.13 11 14
  • MensLine AustraliaCounselling for men, including grief. Open 24/7.1300 78 99 78